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Our score was 0. Zero, zilch, nada. And with six kiddos, we’ve done each of these things more than once. 
Yes, even, and perhaps especially, the accidental washing of disposable diapers (complete and total nightmare, I promise).
The truth is, parenting comes with tons of rough moments and mistakes. Not to mention massive doubts– Are you doing enough? Saying the right things? Setting the best example? If these questions keep you up at night, take a deep breath—you’re doing better than you think.
Every bedtime story you read, every scraped knee you kiss, and every reassuring hug you give contributes to the foundation of love and security your child needs. You don’t have to be perfect; you just have to be present. Research shows that children thrive when they feel loved, heard, and safe—not when their parents get everything “right.”
The Little Things Matter More Than You Realize
Sometimes, we believe that being a good parent means grand gestures—elaborate vacations, expensive toys, or perfectly planned activities. But the reality is, the little things are what make the biggest impact.
Things like showing up in small moments like after-school chats, or big ones like a performance, listening to your child, modeling patience and kindness, and expressing love through words or service are what make a true difference every single day.
Those mistakes? They are drops in an ocean. And if our post proved anything, it is that all parents make them.
Perfect parents are a myth. Social media and parenting books can make it seem like everyone else has it all figured out. The truth? No one does. Every family has challenges, and comparing yourself to a highlight reel will only create unnecessary pressure. Give yourself permission to embrace the imperfect moments, because they are a normal part of real life, and a big part of meaningful connection with your kids.
The next time you doubt yourself, remember: Your child isn’t looking for a perfect parent. They just need YOU. Keep showing up, keep listening, keep loving—because you’re already doing an amazing job.
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